Depressed and girl and wtf?

Im not the kind of guy who is shy nor am i the type of guy who somehow falls in love with someone and never talk to them.

But..

Ive known this girl for about 7 years, Our families have been friends for that long and ive been good friends with her brother.

I knew she had a crush on my 2 years ago but then i had this one yea (dont want to go into it... Dark days) where i was really just a paranoid fag, i was wierd and talked dumb and was into bad music. then she blocked me from everything Msn bebo etc (i dont like bebo/myspace and all that so u know and i dont spend too much time on msn) and now i went to her brother's birthday and saw her for a brief moment while having dinner. I tried to make eye contact but she wouldnt get her eyes off the TV (she looked so stunning) and now i feel generally like crap and dont know why.

We live 2 hours drive apart and i want to see her and try sort things out but i just dont know what i can say/do to make it up to her.

I just want some advise...

Depressed and girl and wtf?

The timing gap may be a problem here.Why not give her a phone call,asking her if she would be interested in a coffee somewhere.l am sure by her first response you will get the right vibe as to where you stand.You may have had your chance a couple of years ago and now it may be to late.

Well then take the 2 hour drive and rock up on her doorstep.This will be an indication to her that she may mean something to you.with all the other advise that you have been given.........Well give it a go.....plus with a bunch of red roses.!!!

Depressed and girl and wtf?

Dang 2 hour drive apart...

do you see her at any other place like school??

Is your family planning on moving anywhere closer to her or vice versa??

if not I'm sorry to say it but you might be screwed cause you don't get to see her as often and when you do it might only be for a short while.

O thats nice to know I like to check up on questions :)

well then i would say you can try calling her.

Depressed and girl and wtf?

Are you friends with her brother, I'm assuming? You say you went to his birthday party.

I suggest you write a note that includes the words "I'm sorry" and a general request to sort things out (that isn't too forward). After that, either include your phone number OR email address so she can choose her avenue of contact IF she wants. Give the note to her brother to give to her.

Give it about two weeks for her to initiate contact. If that doesn't work, send another note with a bouquet of flowers to her house or while she's at school (girls LOVE this).

After that, the ball will be in her court.

Depressed and girl and wtf?

hmm... well i would start by at least saying hi in some way... is there any way you can reach her? write her a message maybe with a small brief explanation and apology... if your really that serious about getting her attention, try sending flowers to her house... something like that out of the blue may make her smile and put the thought of you back in her head. since its a little rough between the two of you, however you decide to move foward with it... move slow and careful! the last thing you want to do is overwhelm her or pressure her... give it time and try to be patient, show her your a different person now! and if she doesnt respond then shes just being childish... and your better than that!! good luck!

Depressed and girl and wtf?

Well I would get her a gift. Like roses or a present she might like a romantic gift then get her alone in a room.....trap her there and ask her to talk to you. Ask her if you could do something to make it up to her since when you were being a peranoid a(**) to her. Tell her that you've changed and that you have very strong feelings towards her. That you would like to start over on the friendship.Because you have to make a base with her before anything an come of it. Let her see that you've changed and whatever you do DONT I repeat DONT treat her the same as you did before to her. Just try to make it clear to her that your not playing and messing around with her emotions. I hope I helped. GOOD LUCK. I've been somewhat in your shoes.....Up date me on it will ya.Thanks Amanda

Depressed and girl and wtf?

your actually falling for her....

my advice ask her out....

know her more......

make her feel special....

gudluck....

ciao....