Need a girl's perspective?

OK, so I've gone out twice with this girl I met about a month or so ago. Both have been great times, with the second date ending in a little good-night kiss/peck on the lips after a movie. We made plans for her to come over to my place a few nights ago, and she didn't show. I haven't been able to reach her at all since then, and I'm really confused right now.

This makes no sense. This girl was flirting with me like no tomorrow, and had basically taken over the comment portion of my myspace. Now she's completely vanished. It's obvious that she is very much into me, so I don't know what to think right now. What could possibly be going on in her head? I mean, I suppose its possible that something out of her control is going on, but I just don't know at all.

Thanks for your help!

Need a girl's perspective?

she freaked out its over buddy

Need a girl's perspective?

She could possibly be having 'cold feet'. Give her some time to sort out what it is she wants and I'm sure it will all work out.

Need a girl's perspective?

She is probably caught up in things and will get back to you in a day or so. Don't freak, everything will be okay.

Need a girl's perspective?

maybe you guys moved a little too fast cause it was only your second date and she probably thought you were trying to throw yourself at her

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Are you sure something has not happened to her? Sounds weird that she would just vanish without a trace basically. If you know her to be well but she is still not communicating with you, then perhaps something has happened for her to change her mind. The worst part is that you just do not know what it is that may be going on, which is making you crazy with worry and doubt. Keep your chin up, maybe it is something very simple like she just got busy or a friend/family member needed her and she hasn't had an opportunity to contact you yet.

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If a girl is into you, she isn't going to just blow you off and not return your calls. Maybe this girl saw you as more of a friend and the kiss you gave her at the end of the date freaked her out.

I would move on and find someone else who is going to be more straight forward about how they feel.

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She is uncomfortable about something. Perhaps she is inexperienced and thinks that you'll dump her for that. Did you "push" her? I would absolutely call her and leave an honest message that you don't know what happened. Tell her that you're really into her and what you like about her. Apologize for possibly scaring her away. JUST ASK HER WHY SHE WON'T CALL BACK! TELL HER YOU DESERVE SOME TYPE OF EXPLANATION EVEN IF IT'S NEGATIVE! Honesty is the best policy and will get you farther in life. Be open. That's the best way to finding true feelings and forging good relationships!

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AWww,I don't know maybe she was scared of getting into a relationship possibly?! OR another guy entered the picture?!

HMmm...odd..very odd..well if you do get a hold of her ask her about it my dear...don't be shy I'm sure she didn't want to waste your time OR her own...well good luck!

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I don't think she was really serious, my man. Flirting with you seems to be all she was about. She will no doubt come 'flitting' back when she has lost interest in her present 'matter', and hopefully you won't still be there waiting SOLO!

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You know sometimes girls are alot like guys. You go out have a great time and then start double thinking what your doing and the other person starts getting a little closer than you want so you don't call for a while and keep your distance. We have all done it. If this girl is really into you, give her some space and let her call you. Don't worry about it so much because I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there just waiting to go out with ya! If this girl wants contact......let her contact you. Sounds like you've done what you needed to do on your part. If she doesn't call, move on to someone else.

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Try not to worry. There is probably just something out of her control or she is just nervous. Give her some space for a week, if she doesn' t try to contact you within that time call her again, but try not to confront her about it or be too pushy about it. after you two get friendly and talk for a while gently ask her why she didn't return your calls. try to be understanding.

also, don't think you moved too fast. my b/f tried to kiss me on the first date, and had he not missed it would have been my first kiss. it didn't freak me out at all, i doubt it'd scare her off that bad.

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This girl seems immature as hell. Give her some time, and also don't call her anymore, just leave her be. She should be ashamed for doing this to you. The kiss thing should not be freaking her out, which to me shows immaturity, so it is in your interest to let her be. If she does get back to you on the phone, definitely don't just let her back in, be real suspicious. Whatever her excuse is is probably a lie or an exaggeration. She is just very immature, and probably a female player looking to hurt people.

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"she freaked out its over buddy". i think nate's answer summed it up well! sorry, i laughed my *** off when i saw this answer! but seriously, give her one week tops to get back to you and if you don't hear back, MOVE ON!!! there are plenty of pretty fishes in the sea!

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do u know where she lives?works? or anything like that?

not for nothing but maybe something happened to her if u do have info at least where she works i think u should go to her job and ask if she has been in or if they have seen her if they havnt maybe something happened but if she has been at work then just look at it as maybe she just wasn't that into u. its one thing liking and flirting through myspace but just maybe you had more fun on the date then she did.take it as a lesson learned dont try to make flirting such a big deal, everyone flirts but its harmless, flirting now a days is like have a conversation about nothing. im not saying to lose hope in love at first sight but dont base your out look on the rest of the relationship from flirting