Girl trying to use me as backup?

Well if you have been reading my past questions you will know that I had a Girl that I liked (Who also supposedly liked me) went out with another guy after she broke up with her last BF months ago! Well when the summer started we got in a short fight about us ever being BF and GF,After ignoring her (Since I did not want to cause any trouble) for about 2 Months she tries to talk to me through Myspace telling me she broke up with her BF and doesn't see them getting back together.I know she obviously wants me to go out with her,but if doing so I feel that I am just going to be a Back-up! She also broke up with him like 2-3 Days ago which makes me wonder Why doesnt she wait? (Hell she criticized my plan when I wanted to give her 3 weeks to get over her BF she had for years) She is keeps sending me messages (Had about 8 yesterday that I never answered) and hired someone (I don't know who) to see my bulletins! In order to stop this I might need to talk to her and I honestly dont want to!

Girl trying to use me as backup?

Look cut the drama. The girl is using you so she can have that backup in place. If she was going to be your girlfriend again it would have happend long ago. Listen carefully... It is not gonna happen. get over it. Stop calling her stop taking her calls make no contact of any kind and accept none. If you must deal with her at all make it as short and to the point as possible and then walk away from her.

If you want this over so be it and stop the lingering and the hopful interpretations and all the bs and just cut this girl from you thoughts and move on with your life. You do not need any more advice than that if you mean what you say and want to end this. Just do it

Girl trying to use me as backup?

And you want this person as a girlfriend? Why?

Girl trying to use me as backup?

tell her straight that u don't wanna go out with her and not interested in her anymore.

Girl trying to use me as backup?

R U SERIOUS U WANT HER AS A GIRLFREIND??????

Girl trying to use me as backup?

Granny says, back in my day we did not have this myspace/facebook nonsense to taunt each other through. If someone were truly interested in you they would simply pick up their phone and call you. These internet applications make it easy to discern who is really real and who just hides behind the monitor. Also, you have no idea how many other young men she is communicating with, perhaps extending invitations to many just to say she got one. Chicks are outnumbered, and we sometimes think that way.

IMMEDIATELY PLACE HER ON permanent "IGNORE" in your mind. There are so many other people out there who may not play with your emotions and use you, as you put it, as "back up."

Back up leads to only one place: being dumped and then being someone else's backup. Do not accept any invitations from this girl.

Chin up. You will have a suitable, stable emotionally available hook-up by the end of the month.

Move one. It's summer. You sound young. Go find someone else.

Girl trying to use me as backup?

Lol, just tell her you know that women like her are the scum of the earth and the reason for all the pain and misery in the universe. Tell her if she wants to be your GF again, she will have to put out EVERYTIME you ask her to, and where ever you want. If she claims you are just using her, then you can honestly say "What a coincidence! SO ARE YOU!" Or if she accepts, Then you will have proven women are good for one thing and smile with satisfaction while you enjoy your BJs.

Good luck, dude!