He marked single on his Myspace? Is that considered cheating?

My boyfriend stays on Myspace for several hours at a time up until 3am in the morning. How much keeping in touch is he really doing???!!! He says that I'm being insecure but he is doing more that keeping in touch. Should I be acting this way since it is just the internet or should I tell him that it bothers me and that he chats online for too long. Also, he has single on his myspace page, and he makes excuses about changing it, yet I know he is faithful outside of the internet. I dont know what to do. I would rather for him to have dirty conversations than to have sex with another girl. What should I do?

He marked single on his Myspace? Is that considered cheating?

There are obvious trust issues in this relationship to begin with and I'm sorry to read of it. He isn't exactly "cheating" in the strictest definition if he is putting "single" on his profile. However, he is being deceptive and it is easy to see why you may not be able to trust him. In your case, you'd rather he was having internet conversations of a sexual nature, instead of him actually having sex with some other girl. However, in both cases, it seems that he is "unfaithful" - ie. Having sex would be cheating and unfaithful and having these conversations would definitely be unfaithful if not cheating if he's "going out" with these other people online.

In this case, you do not have any proof this is going on, but if you have doubts, I think you need to tell him like it is. Also, I personally don't think either having these conversations or actually having sex with some other girl is acceptable and you should not settle for either option. You have trouble trusting him and that needs to come out into the open first and then if he is purporting to be single and "internet dating" these other people - then perhaps it's time for a break till he can sort himself out. I'm sorry for your situation and hope this helps! :(

He marked single on his Myspace? Is that considered cheating?

Stand right next to him and say babe look that status "single really bothers as well as u being on myspace til 3am can we work something out to fix how I'm feeling about this if he says no say okay peace!!!!!!!!

He marked single on his Myspace? Is that considered cheating?

you should be pissed... what the hell does he need to be putting single on there if you are his g/f . dont let him give you any b/s about that. ugh,, hes a liar .. you must be young right? find another guy and move on and if you really like him and are willing to take his crap stick around it will only get worse.

if he says youre being insecure its probably because you have done things in the past to make him say that,, youre probably a jealous person. if you know hes all yours then be confident but i think you have reason to be insecure when hes playing that little game of changing his status to single... the stayin on till late thing.. depends what hes doing... if hes goofing around changing his layout and whatever thats enterataining so who cares, but if hes browsing through all these girls pages and commenting ,,, watch out...

good luck!

He marked single on his Myspace? Is that considered cheating?

common,remember its just MYSPACE!!!!!!!!!!!!

He marked single on his Myspace? Is that considered cheating?

Thats a tough one cos we dont know, It could be innocent (i go online late at night and am in no way "talking" to other guys in any way other then friendship) I mean, myspace is kind of addicting. the fact he has himself down as single is strange and I was honored to change my status to "in a realtionship" and tell the world i was taken and off the market.

You say you shared your concern with him and brushes it off, well, tell him it really hurts you. You have to decide if you trust him or not. If you trust him, do just that. If not, tell him you dont feel secure...if he doesnt care enough about ur feelings, I dont think he is worth it. If my bf had issues with me going on sites like myspace, well, i care more about him then myspace. If your bf wants to throw it in your face you dont trust him, not much you can do...decide if its worth it or not. I would think if he loved you, he'd put you first.

He marked single on his Myspace? Is that considered cheating?

leave him