How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

Been dating this girl about six weeks. She seems like a wonderful girl who could do no wrong and is totally into me. I've noticed a few potential problems however: she hasn't told any of her friends about me, even after we go away for the weekend. Wouldn't add me to myspace saying she never uses it, but i found her profile (set to private) and she is on it everyday, was hesitant to add me to facebook but i can't see her wall and she has her relationship status not shown, was extremely protective of her phone once when I used it and she thought i was getting into it, like she didnt want me to see something. I just tried to add her to myspace this morning, but she didn't accept me, and said she needed to delete some pictures (of her and her ex i think?) before she wanted me to see. Still didn't accept me after all day. I asked if she was hiding anything or if there were other guys. She said no way and she'd never hurt me like that. Am I paranoid or are my concerns justified? Thoughts?

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

Sounds suspicious... If she's really a wonderful woman, stick it out and wait for her to be ready.

I mean, there's life outside of online.

But tell her how you feel about her not telling anyone, and if she gets mad at you, then she's probably hiding something.

=)

~Kate

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

I would break up with her, i am not even jokeing

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

you should be suspicious. it seems like she might have another guy on the side if you ask me. you should really talk to her about it.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

she sounds like a psychopath.

you might want to ditch her.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

She already has a boyfriend

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

seems seriously like a liar and someone u cant trust, she is keeping something from u and thats not cool. since its so early in the relationship, id say just b friends and nothin more cause she seems like someone who will hurt u in the future

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

It could be that she doesn't fully trust you, but I honestly am of the opinion that she is hiding something from you. If you can't have an open trustworthy relationship then it isn't a real relationship....move on.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

no man. i have learned the hard way that no girls are to be trusted. demand your rights! be a man! lol

that may just be my twice cheated on self talking but i would definitly look into it

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

Your concerns are justified. But, maybe she's just freaking out over little things, like you seeing her conversations/ judging things?

Try when you two are alone to just bring it up. Tell her it concerns you, and if she won't give you a straight answer and avoids it, she may be doing something suspicious/she doesn't trust you. Trust is everything in a relationship!

Good luck!

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

Get rid of her! Find out what she's hiding! This is not right of her, and she should have you as her number one friend on myspace!

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

She is hiding something for sure! I wouldn't believe her if I were you. I totally think your concerns are justified. I mean, she lied to you about her myspace, she wouldn't let you touch her phone, and her facebook is secretive too. I wouldn't believe her. A relationship that starts off like this...with secrecy is a bad one. Honesty in a relationship is best for it to thrive. If I were you, I'd get out of it if she isn't going to open up to you or if she is hiding things from you.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

I would be suspicious...afterall, if she was that into you, she would want to tell the world, unless of course there was someone else...

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

get rid of her

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

As a girl, it sounds to me like she is playing you... She most likely has a relationship with someone else and she's just keeping you on the side.. She's definitely trying to avoid making "you and her's" relationship public... My advice... End things now before you get more hurt.... You can find someone better!!!

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

I would be concerned that she still has a boyfriend. I would be pretty worried if I were you. That's not normal behavior and it seems she is definitely hiding something. I would give her a chance to explain herself before you freak out or break up with her or anything. It could be something as simple as her parents don't want her to date, or she could have a daughter that she wants to keep out of the picture until she knows you will stick around for her. You are right to be concerned. Best of luck figuring out what to do.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

Hmm dude. I guess Im paranoid because I felt funny after finishing your read. Yes, Id keep doing what your doing and keep your emotions on hold and your actions of kindness staying the same. Im seeing a girl for five months and intercepted an e-mail where she wrote " things with him are good right now but everything has an expiry date." Must be on my back cause I havnt seen it yet. lol.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

as i girl i'd have to say that it sounds kind of fishy to me. although being in a commited relationship niether myself or my fiance go through each others phones or anythng give it a few days and if things still haven't changed brng the subject up again. try not to be too pushy about t though or she'll get really defensive. i guess it really all comes down to if you don't feel that she's being honest with you then maybe you should break it off with her.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

I can't say that your being paranoid because her actions are a little suspicious. I can understand her not adding you to myspace because maybe she wants to get to know you more, or maybe she's uncomfortable with people being in her business. But I don't see why she wouldn't let you see her mysapce page. That is a little strange. But you should wait to see more of her reactions and don't be too nervous unless you've got ground evidence that she maybe seeing someone else. Don't jump to assumption too quickly because it can create an unhealthy relationship. You should first be sure of your evidence before accusing her.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

She is proabably still with someone and is seeing you. Trying to compare you and this other person. To see who she likes better. Too good to be true is usually just that. Maybe she is a different person on myspace and doesn't want you to see her. No your not paranoid that does sound suspicious.

How suspicious is this girl and how should I handle it? Opinions please?

I'd just let her go. Anyone who will hide the fact that you're together in the beginning will hide things the whole relationship. She definitely has something going on. Don't be her rebound guy!